Praying For My Children After Charleston

Praying For My Children After Charleston

Week after week, I light two small candles. I move behind my children and put one hand on each of their heads and I begin my prayer: Y’varech’cha Adonai V’yishmerecha. I ask that they be blessed and kept safe, favored and granted peace. I kiss each child on the...
Young Jews: Every Voice Matters

Young Jews: Every Voice Matters

For they (the teachings) are our life source, and what lengthen our days, and so we meditate on them day and night.” — Siddur This past week I arrived at Camp Yavneh in New Hampshire. It is my first time at a summer camp. Not knowing anyone or what to expect, I was...
Reb Zalman in the Andes

Reb Zalman in the Andes

This piece is being published on the yahrzeit of Reb Zalman Schachter-Shalomi of blessed memory, may his teachings endure. It begins like an old Hasidic story. A reluctant maskil (a defender of the rational reform of Judaism, an “enlightener”) is strong-armed into...
Father – Look for those (Jewish) teaching moments

Father – Look for those (Jewish) teaching moments

“Hey Buddy!” Whenever I hear that term, so common coming from the lips of dads in my generation, I invariably pause to reflect on the Fifth Commandment which instructs children to honor their parents (“kibbud av va-em”). Will a child whose father calls him (or, almost...
Born Jewish or Not, You Matter

Born Jewish or Not, You Matter

I’m a convert. I converted. I wasn’t “BORN” Jewish, whatever the heck that means. The way I look — my golden complexion and the abundance of ringlet curls on my head — combined with the difference in my upbringing have always challenged my place in society and even in...
Seamlessly Chinese and Jewish

Seamlessly Chinese and Jewish

Recently at work, one of my co-workers, who is a Chinese originally from Taiwan, stopped by my desk to ask me a question. He spotted the calendar on my desk. “You have a Jewish calendar,” he said. “Yes?” I replied. “A Jewish calendar?” he asked again. “I am Jewish,” I...