A Real Cuban Mojito

A Real Cuban Mojito

The first time I tasted a mojito, and I mean really tasted a mojito, I was in Havana with my family, and my dad had whisked me away to a local hotspot after a long, sweaty day of delivering humanitarian aid to those in need. That night was particularly warm, and the...
My Jewish Mother the Hero

My Jewish Mother the Hero

My family has always been the foundation of my life. I have very strong bonds with both my parents. Over the years, I have come to appreciate how my parents raised me based on their life experiences. My parents have been married for 33 years, and I always look to them...
My Chinese Daughter’s Jewish Roots

My Chinese Daughter’s Jewish Roots

This is the final in a short series on adoption in Jewish families. Enjoy! In 1988, I had my entire life completely worked out. I was ordained as a cantor, married the love of my life and moved from New York to a community just west of Boston. We would live in...
Uncovering Awe and Joy in Israel

Uncovering Awe and Joy in Israel

“Ima, I’m eating breakfast. It tastes like home. I want to live here forever.” The simplicity and joy of my daughter’s phone call from her first morning in Israel keeps replaying in my head. It is a balm on my soul and a window into the blessing that is the State of...
Eating Bacon?

Eating Bacon?

“Did you like bacon before you were Jewish?” This question from one or both of my sons comes up periodically, at the dinner table, or in the car. There often seems no clear context to the question. It just pops up, now and then. I generally answer “Yes, I did, but I...
A Letter to My Son

A Letter to My Son

To My Beautiful Son, Two years ago today we met for the first time. You were two days old, and we had known about you for just one day, since the adoption agency director had come to find me the day before to tell me that a baby had been born whom she believed was...